We're continuing to revisit some of the great questions we received during our Referral Clinic and Blogathon in May and June.
Today's question comes from Carol, a wirehouse advisor in Englewood, CO, and will be answered by Katherine Vessenes, JD, CFP®, RFC. Katherine is president of Vestment Advisors and the country's leading authority on building a multimillion-dollar practice.
Carol asks: My ideal client has said I have been spectacularly successful in getting them to consolidate, assess and plan. Our investments have done very well. My problem is they believe if I have fewer clients, I will have more time to attend to them—and they have inquiries nearly every month which require research. I need to tell them I will not BE IN the business if I do not service more clients in the $3M range-just like them. How do I say they are using me up, which is short-term helpful to them, but long term means they will be with a different advisor?
Katherine Vessenes replies: Carol, I have two thoughts about your dilemma.
First, you might not be feeling so burned out if you felt like you were getting compensated for your time. Many years ago I learned an important lesson while practicing law and trying to keep the difficult clients happy: I would just raise my fees until I fell in love with them again. Consider using your RIA to charge fees or raise them for the level of service you are providing.
Second—if that doesn't work, then go to plan B: I would invite them to be part of your informal client advisory board. (Although this technique will work with just this client, it would be better in a small group of similar clients.)
Call them and tell them you would like to invite them to a dinner party and get their feedback on a couple of things because you really value their advice and are seeking some ideas about your business.
Start the meeting off by describing your ideal client. Then get the discussion going by asking the clients what they think the ideal client would like about your current level of service, and what they think you should change. Take copious notes, of course. Then ask them for suggestions on how to get more referrals to this group. Good ways to phrase this are: if you were me, how would you approach this group? Can you give me some specific suggestions? If you are really bold, you might say: some of my clients have been hesitant to give me referrals even though they really like my services. What am I doing wrong?
Two things should happen after this meeting: you should have a great marketing plan to your ideal client, and your existing clients should be much more motivated to give you referrals.
Good luck and let me know how it works out for you.
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I know that elevator speaches are a subject of contention right now. I think one needs to be careful saying things like :"I reduce stress". This sounds alot like an AMWAY pitch "I help people live their dreams". The most successful MLM company on the planet still teaches their flock to avoid saying AMWAY at all costs. Admittedly I have not perfected my elevator speach either, but I'm working on it, or at least some semblance of a "value statement". Thanks for all the useful ideas. SM
Posted by: Scott Miller | September 14, 2006 at 12:37 PM