Referrals: Are You Worthy?

Last week I told you about a great marketing article by Robert Middleton on the topic of what we at Horsesmouth call "sales shame" (free registration requred) While reading comments on the article submitted by Robert's readers, I came across one that contains a great teaching point.

A reader named Victoria said that as she read Robert's article,

"I realized that the only times I have disliked and demonized selling have been when I had no confidence in the value of what I was offering. From now on, when I feel reluctance to sell, I will look a lot more closely at what I am offering for sale!"

This is a great point.  When you do a gut check, you may find that you feel great about your knowledge and service and just have negative feelings about asking for referrals... or, you may find that you actually don't feel very good about yourself professionally. 

If that's the case, give the matter some real, honest, objective thought.  Are you selling yourself short?  Are you better than you're giving yourself credit for? Or do you have some bona fide deficits you need to address in your knowledge base, your client service approach, or in some other key area of your practice? 

As Victoria points out, it's very unpleasant to sell when you don't feel good about what you're selling... and as an advisor, that "product" is really you and your services.  If you don't think the product is up to snuff, it's time to make the necessary improvements. 

Give yourself a "product" you can feel proud of, and you'll find that asking for referrals (and prospecting in general) will get a whole lot easier.