When you get a referral, regardless of whether you end up with a new client or not, be sure to give your client a hearty and gracious thank-you, IMMEDIATELY. A hard copy, handwritten note is an absolute must. E-mail and telephone thanks are NOT acceptable substitutes.
The written thank-you is a dying art—so it's very much to your benefit if you're one of the few advisors who knows how to do it properly.
For the best effect, don't use your firm's letterhead. Instead, get yourself some high-quality stationery engraved simply with your name, and enclose your business card with the note. Crane's is one of the best sources of this type of stationery.
A thank-you note need not be long or elaborate. A few thoughtful lines will do. A pretty standard format is three to five lines in length. Start off with an expression of gratitude for the referral. Then provide a bit of detail to personalize your thanks. Mention any plans you may have to be in touch in the near future. Say thank you again, and close. It's as simple as that.
Here is a sample note thanking a client for a referral. This is provided simply to give you an idea of how the wording might go. Your own notes should be true to your own personal style and voice.
Dear Paul and Michelle,
Many thanks for introducing me to Roger and Pamela Johnson last Saturday. I sat down with the Johnsons this morning, which only reinforced what lovely people they are (I would expect nothing less from friends of yours!) with whom it will be a great pleasure to work.
Thank you again for your kind introduction. It is clients like you that make my job such a joy.
Warmly,
John
And here is a sample note of thanks to another professional who has referred a client to you. Notice that it includes the other professional in the process by offering to share the completed financial plan... this is appropriate if the referral came from a relevant professional, such as a CPA or estate attorney.
Dear Don,
I so appreciate the confidence you have in me, and the many referrals you have sent my way. I met with the Martins this morning, and I know they are going to be fun clients.
I will give you a call as soon as I complete their financial plan and we can review it over lunch—my treat.
Thanks again for all your support!
Best regards,
Julie
Don't underestimate the power of a handwritten thank-you note. Send them regularly and you'll set yourself apart from your competition and impress 100% of your clients and connections.








I have horrible handwriting and have resorted to typing all correspondence. Do you have any other suggestions?
Posted by: Justin | January 13, 2009 at 09:56 AM
Thanks for your question, Justin.
There really is no substitute for handwritten script. The impression it gives is unmatched. If your handwriting is legible, you should really be doing it.
However, if your handwriting is really that bad, you might consider a service like Send Out Cards (https://www.sendoutcards.com).
Just be careful, because "faking" handwriting can come across as tacky and be worse than just word-processing.
Posted by: Doug | January 16, 2009 at 01:40 PM